It is very important that we all understand the different labels used in the LGBTQIA+ community. Sometimes all of the different labels and pronouns can be confusing! We are here to help!
Ally Allies are individuals who don’t identify as LGBTQIA+ but support both individuals and communities who do, and advocate on their behalf.
Asexual People who identify as asexual are not sexually attracted to either sex, though the spectrum of experiences vary from person to person.
Bisexual Individuals who identify as bisexual are attracted to both sexes, either in physical or emotional ways, or both.
Cisgender A person is considered to be cisgender if they identify with the sex they were assigned at birth.
Closeted An LGBTQIA+ individual who has not yet revealed their sexual orientation or gender identity publicly.
Coming Out/Disclosure LGBTQIA+ individuals often disclose their sexual orientation and gender identity to their family, friends and/or community – also known as coming out.
Gay/Lesbian This term is used to refer to individuals who are emotionally, romantically, or sexually attracted to someone of the same gender; women who are attracted to other women often prefer the term “lesbian,” while men use the term “gay.”
Gender-Expansive Individuals who are gender-expansive believe there is a wider spectrum of gender identities than simply male and female.
Gender Expression How one expresses gender identity using outward appearances, behaviors or other means.
Gender Identity While the sex assigned at birth is binary, one’s gender identity is informed by how one sees oneself.
Gender-Neutral This phrase refers to a number of different concepts, all of which revolve around neutrality. It could be used to discuss gender-neutral pronouns, bathrooms or identities.
Queer Once carrying a negative connotation, numerous LGBTQIA+ youth have re-appropriated this word to refer to the LGBTIA+ community as a whole.
Questioning Individuals who are currently exploring their own sexual orientation and gender identities are said to be “questioning.”
Transgender Transgender individuals are people who don’t identify with the sex they were assigned at birth and instead choose to express a different gender identity.
Transition Transition happens when an LGBTIA+ individual takes steps – legally, medically or socially – to affirm their gender identity. This may include changing one’s name or seeking gender reassignment surgeries.
Let's talk about Pronouns!
Pronouns are words that refer to either the people talking (like you or I) or someone or something that is being talked about (like she, they, and this). Gender pronouns (like he or them) specifically refer to people that you are talking about.
Mistaking or assuming peoples' pronouns without asking first, mistakes their gender and sends a harmful message. Using someone's correct gender pronouns is one of the most basic ways to show your respect for their identity. It is really good practice to ask which pronouns a person uses. I find it easier to ask a person how they would like to be addressed instead of asking what their pronouns are directly. Always do what is most comfortable for you while keeping the other person's comfortability in mind!
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